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Divorce
of Husband
wife and Impact on their Children
The
fact is that Allah allows us to divorce but there are some conditions like when
husband and wife are not satisfied by their relation and when they cross their
limits and they are not able to understand each other in a way of manner they
can get separation but it is better to be reuniting. If someone gives divorce
it is a dislike action in the sight of Allah
Divorce
means disunion. There are many reasons to give divorce to each other. If we are
talking about past or present we cannot deny the reality of divorce. In first
era it didn’t used to exist as much as it is today. Even though the educated
people of today are getting divorce even they can understand the problem and
they are able to solve it but they are thinking that divorce can solve the
entire problem instead of facing their problems. Children are being victim of
their divorce. People are awarded of the truth that the divorce will not affect
their life as much as it affects their children’s life.
The
main questions arises that why we are facing these types of problems. What are
the main reason behind this, actually there are some particular reasons
likewise not understanding each other, affairs with others strictness of in-laws
and other sorts of problems.
Having doughty in the relationship is the most
dangerous problem in the realationship.there should be trust in relation
because the stronger relation is built on the trust and believe, the doubtful
relation cannot exist long. If we are facing problems in our relation we ought
to conform it before it’s too late.
Today
divorce or disunion are given on little little things which get bigger by not solving them on right time and that end
on having divorce. Like when wife wants to work and her husband does not allow
or other family members by in laws, Then wife start to get doubt and that doubt
get bigger and bigger by not comforting each other or not feeling the way they
feel. In our society it happens that whenever we just make to get merry from
boy to girl even we don’t think and ask from them, in compulsion they ready for
get merry only to make their parents happy and after a while period of time they
get separation and all.
In
our society (dory) is the main issue for divorce, mostly A girl is tortured by
her in laws in order to bring dory or some amount by her home otherwise she is
being threaten to be ready for divorce. they just create mess, in this case
children get deprived of the shadow from their parents they don’t know the
situation how to get solution, how to handle
what we have to take decision, whom we have to give favor to father or mother and where
we have to go.
Another
reason is that which we are facing these days that is our women want to be work
with man shoulder to shoulder, they think if male are doing so why we cannot?
in this case they just ignore their children all problems create from this matter.
Although the sacrificing comes from in the part of women, if a woman is
tolerating so that we can say the home of her is called home otherwise it can
be called house..Khalid Iqbal,foundation of Ramah Institute
Said
that Mostly it happens that the personality of a child get effect for this
situation and they also just loss their self confidence, they just avoid to
make friends talk to different sort of people they feel scary to say anything
to anyone and they always feel the complex to feel the inferiority complex a lot.
In different sort of school activities, functions and other things when a child
go on that time he relies that where is my mother or where is my father when
others taunt him or her or say something wrong about his or her mother on that
time a child feel that I’m a loser person on that time mostly they do wrong
things so that they have become rude, ruthless coldhearted and others they just
get emotional and get peevish to react any single thing which they don’t have
to react. In the book of Divorcing Children written by doubles and Robinson it
is said that The main and the biggest think is that in such these causes mostly
children become the victim of isolation and which is the most and biggest and
the dangerous effect that compel them some time to have a be violence.
Researchers have proven that divorce can have long lasting effects on these
children
Well
according to me atmosphere is mean a lot for each and any single person, in our
society people look badly to women who is having divorce, parents must have to
think about their children’s happiness, love and their wishes before thinking
of their own benefits. Husband wife ought to compromise for their children and
their future
Ali Raza M.A previous
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by Ali raza M.A previous
Divorce
of Husband
wife and Empact on their Children
The
fact is that first thing is that Allah allows us to divorce but there are some
conditions like when husband and wife are not satisfied by their relation and
when they cross their limits and they are not able to understand each other in
a way of manner they can get sepration but it is better to be reunite.If
someone gives divorce is a dislike action in the sight of Allah
Divorce
means disunion. There are many reasons to give divorce to eachother. if we are
talking about past or present we can not deny the reality of divorce. In first
era it didn’t used to exist as much as
it is today. Even though the educated people of today are getting divorce even
they can understand the problem and they are able to solve it but they are
thinking that divorce can solve all the problem instead of facing their
problems they are creating more problems by getting divorce and making more
problems for their children yes their children are being the victim of their
divorce. People are awared of the truth that the divorce will not effect their
life as much as it effect their childrens life.
The
main questions arises that why are we facing these type of problems. What are the main reson behibd this,
actually there are some particular reasons likewise not understanding each
other, affairs with others strictness of inlaws and other sorts of problems.
having dought in the realationship is the most
dengrous problem in the
realationship.there should be trust in relation because the stronger relation
is built on the trust and believe the doubtfull relation cannot exist long. If
we are facing problems in our relation we ought to confort it before its to
late.
Today
divorce or disunion are given on little little things which get bigger by not solving them on right time and that end
on having divorce. Like when wife wants to work and her husband does not allow
orthe family members by in laws. Then wife start toget doubt and that doubt get
bigger and bigger by not conforting each other or not feeling the way they feel.
In our society it happenes that when ever we just make to get merry from boy to
girl even we don’t think and ask from them.in compellsion they ready for get
merray only to make their parents happy and after a while period of time they
get sepration and all.
In
our society( dorry) is the main issue for divorce,most A girl is tortured by
her in laws in order to bring dory or some amount by her home otherwise she is
being threaten tobe ready for divorce.they just create mess,in this case
children get deprived of the shadow from their parents in that case children
don’t know the situation how to get solution,how to handle what we have to take decision,whome we have
to give favour to father or mother and wher we have to go
Another
reason is that which we are facing these days that is our women want to be work
with man shoulder to shoulder,they think if male are doing so why we can not?in
this case they just ignore their children all problems create from this
matter.Although the sacrificing comes from in the part of women,if a woman is
tolerating so that we can say the home of her is called home otherwise it can
be called house.
In
this case children have to travel for their father and mother are equall,mostly
it happenes that the personality of a child get effect for this situation and
they also just loss their self confidence,they just avoid to make friends talk
to different sort of people they feel scary to say anything to anyone and they
always feel the complex to feel the inferiority complex a lot.In different sort
of school activities,functions and other things when a child go on that time he
relies that wher is my mother or wher is my father when others taunt him or her
or say some thing wrong about his or her mother on that time a child feel that
I’m a loser personon that time mostly they do wrong things so that they have
become rude,ruthless coldhearted and others they just get emotional and get
peevish to react any single thing which they don’t have to react.The main and
the biggest think is that in such these causes mostly children become the
victim of isolation and which is the most and biggest and the dangerious effect
that compell them some time to have a be violence
Well
according to me atmosphere is mean a lot for each and any single person,in our
society people look badly to women who is having divorce,parents must have to
think about their childrens happeness,love and their wishes before thinking of
their owen benefits.Husband wife ought to compromise for their children and
their future
Ali Raza M.A
previous
Roll nO 12
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